Yesterday in one of our Dailies there was an "exposé" on
abortion. The writer appeared amazed that this operation takes only a
few minutes and it was "shocking" that in one case a woman had had six
abortions and in one case she actually had it done over lunchtime and
was back to class in the afternoon with nary a problem. There was also a
claim that there are 29 abortions for every 100 live births. Abortion
in Kenya is illegal, and many organizations are opting to educate Kenyan
women, and men, on various family planning methods. Our religious
organizations are pushing for the ineffective abstinence method, many
corporations and NGOs are pushing for condom use while a small number
(mainly religious) are pushing for faithfulness to a single partner. All
of them are trying to put emphasis on prevention while, as usual in
this country, they are ignoring the elephant in the room. The problem, I
think, is not abortion but what leads one to abortion.
It is
said that the replacement rate for a stable population is about 2.3
children per woman while in Kenya the rate is 4.38 children per woman
(estimates as per 2011). This would imply that the population is growing
at almost twice the replacement rate. As per 2011 estimate, Kenya is
having 31.93 births per 1,000 persons and a 7.26 deaths per 1,000
persons an average increase of 24.67 per 1,000 persons. Our infant
mortality rate is 43.61 per 1,000 live births, the maternal mortality
rate of 5.3 per 1,000 and our HIV prevalence rate is about 6.3% with
estimated deaths of about 80,000 per year.
Kenya also has a high
religiosity index with over 98% of Kenyans professing some kind of
deity. The three major religions (Christian Protestants, Roman Catholic
and Islam) are estimated to be about 88% (though the figures for the
Muslim population are disputed) while indigenous religions are about
10%. Some of these indigenous religions are an offshoot of Christianity.
As of 2012 it is estimated that about 50% of Kenyans live below the
poverty line. This figure has risen from 42% in 1992. The poverty rate
is defined as living below 107 Kes (USD 1.25) per day. This is a country
that has a health expenditure of 12% of GDP, 0.14 physicians per 1,000
persons and 1.4 hospital beds per 1,000 persons. The government spends
about 20% of its budget on recurrent expenditure and only about 10% on
development (2010. Sources KIPPRA).
Sex is a basic need, and all
attempts to regulate and/or limit sexual activity only drives these
activities underground. Kenya's highly religious and hypocritical
society frowns upon sex outside of the "sacred" institution of marriage.
Men are frequently frogmarched to police stations for "soiling" the
marriage bed, women are stripped and beaten for straying, prostitution,
casual sex and same sex liaisons are frowned upon, nay, forbidden. Women
who give birth outside of marriage are frequently ostracised and
considered loose. Society will shun the unmarried mother and women bear
the brunt, and responsibilities, of single motherhood. For a strange
reason the men who impregnated these women will frequently get off scot
free or get an equivalent of a slap on the wrists. There are no social
networks in place for taking care of extra children and there is a
cultural folk tale that claims God provides for all children which
absolves the general society the responsibility to taken care of them.
Given the poverty levels it is also understandable that extra children
might become an unbearable burden on the parents and society at large.
Given
that the girl child will most likely drop out of school if she gets
pregnant, with rapidly vanishing chances of continuing education after
delivery, as well as the high chances of being thrown out of her parents
home, it is actually more surprising that we do not have more abortion
cases than are reported. In most cases the cost of maintenance and
upkeep of the child will be borne by the woman, and even where the
partner helps the income levels may severely limit the options available
to the couple. With no safety net a couple facing the prospects of a
child has to work out if they can realistically afford this child, not
only in monetary terms, but also the social and health costs of
maintaining this child.
Since women bear the brunt of this, and
women also are the ones who carry this child I think it really should be
in their interests to be given a choice whether, or not, to carry the
child to term. A woman's choice should not be curtailed for religious
and/or social reasons and since these same religious and social
enforcers do not bear any of the costs of maintaining this child after
delivery they should not be part of the decision whether, or not, a
woman should carry a child to term. The choice ultimately is the
woman's. She is the one who carries the child, she is the one who
delivers the child and she is the one who will be required to take care
of many aspects of that child. She thus should also be the one who
decides whether, or not, the child is to be carried to term.
This,
however, does not absolve the men of any responsibility towards the
child. Inasmuch as a man has contributed to the conception he should
also contribute to the discussion, advice, upkeep and maintenance of
this child. Whereas the woman should, and must, have the ultimate choice
whether to carry the child to term or not, the man, too, can state his
preferences on the issue. He is an interested party, and while he may
not, and should not be, the ultimate decision maker his opinion does
count. He has, as our learned friends put it, locus standi.
Leaving
abortion as illegal only drives the practice underground. Women, and
men, will opt for an abortion for many reasons and they will procure one
regardless as to its illegality. The only purpose making it illegal
serves is to condemn many poor and uninformed women to premature deaths
from botched or incompetently done abortions, or condemn many children,
and mothers, to a lifetime of poverty and suffering with not much chance
of escaping the poverty trap.
At this stage in my life I
probably would not advise any woman who may have been impregnated by me
to abort however if I had over my regulation 2.3 children the scenario
would probably change. It is easy for one who is living in relative
comfort with most of the basic necessities assured to say women should,
and must, not abort, however one should have a level of empathy for
other people. What do you expect a woman in school who knows her parents
will disown her to do? What do you expect that woman in the slums who
is already feeding 12 children to do? What do you expect that woman
whose career and further prospects would be shattered by a pregnancy to
do?
Religious groups cite the absolute sanctity of life in their
opposition to abortion. This argument however falls flat when you
consider the number of goats, cows, bacteria, chicken, viruses or even
humans that are killed through human action, and inaction. It is
hypocritical to claim sanctity of life when thousands of children are
dying every say from preventable deceases, when thousands more are
starving to death and when thousands of mothers are dying from
childbirth and childbirth related complications. We seem to be more
bothered about the rights of the unborn than we are about the rights of
those living. We are moved more by the plight of an aborted foetus than
we are by the face of a hungry child.
Perhaps let us first ban
poverty, let us declare poverty a crime against the state and punish
those who keep people in poverty with the same terms we punish those who
procure an abortion. Let us ban social hypocrisy, let us ban hunger,
let us ban ignorance and those practices that prevent us from enjoying
our sex without guilt or shame. Let us make it easier and cheaper for us
to control conception, let us educate our children on sex, let us ban
our prejudiced views and make it easier for everyone to access
information, services and satisfaction from our sexual activities. Then
we can go on to ban abortion. I can assure you, though, you'll be
banning an obsolete practice.
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