Yesterday in one of our Dailies there was an "exposé" on 
abortion. The writer appeared amazed that this operation takes only a 
few minutes and it was "shocking" that in one case a woman had had six 
abortions and in one case she actually had it done over lunchtime and 
was back to class in the afternoon with nary a problem. There was also a
 claim that there are 29 abortions for every 100 live births. Abortion 
in Kenya is illegal, and many organizations are opting to educate Kenyan
 women, and men, on various family planning methods. Our religious 
organizations are pushing for the ineffective abstinence method, many 
corporations and NGOs are pushing for condom use while a small number 
(mainly religious) are pushing for faithfulness to a single partner. All
 of them are trying to put emphasis on prevention while, as usual in 
this country, they are ignoring the elephant in the room. The problem, I
 think, is not abortion but what leads one to abortion.
It is 
said that the replacement rate for a stable population is about 2.3 
children per woman while in Kenya the rate is 4.38 children per woman 
(estimates as per 2011). This would imply that the population is growing
 at almost twice the replacement rate. As per 2011 estimate, Kenya is 
having 31.93 births per 1,000 persons and a 7.26 deaths per 1,000 
persons an average increase of 24.67 per 1,000 persons. Our infant 
mortality rate is 43.61 per 1,000 live births, the maternal mortality 
rate of 5.3 per 1,000 and our HIV prevalence rate is about 6.3% with 
estimated deaths of about 80,000 per year. 
Kenya also has a high
 religiosity index with over 98% of Kenyans professing some kind of 
deity. The three major religions (Christian Protestants, Roman Catholic 
and Islam) are estimated to be about 88% (though the figures for the 
Muslim population are disputed) while indigenous religions are about 
10%. Some of these indigenous religions are an offshoot of Christianity.
 As of 2012 it is estimated that about 50% of Kenyans live below the 
poverty line. This figure has risen from 42% in 1992. The poverty rate 
is defined as living below 107 Kes (USD 1.25) per day. This is a country
 that has a health expenditure of 12% of GDP, 0.14 physicians per 1,000 
persons and 1.4 hospital beds per 1,000 persons. The government spends 
about 20% of its budget on recurrent expenditure and only about 10% on 
development (2010. Sources KIPPRA).
Sex is a basic need, and all 
attempts to regulate and/or limit sexual activity only drives these 
activities underground. Kenya's highly religious and hypocritical 
society frowns upon sex outside of the "sacred" institution of marriage.
 Men are frequently frogmarched to police stations for "soiling" the 
marriage bed, women are stripped and beaten for straying, prostitution, 
casual sex and same sex liaisons are frowned upon, nay, forbidden. Women
 who give birth outside of marriage are frequently ostracised and 
considered loose. Society will shun the unmarried mother and women bear 
the brunt, and responsibilities, of single motherhood. For a strange 
reason the men who impregnated these women will frequently get off scot 
free or get an equivalent of a slap on the wrists. There are no social 
networks in place for taking care of extra children and there is a 
cultural folk tale that claims God provides for all children which 
absolves the general society the responsibility to taken care of them. 
Given the poverty levels it is also understandable that extra children 
might become an unbearable burden on the parents and society at large.
Given
 that the girl child will most likely drop out of school if she gets 
pregnant, with rapidly vanishing chances of continuing education after 
delivery, as well as the high chances of being thrown out of her parents
 home, it is actually more surprising that we do not have more abortion 
cases than are reported. In most cases the cost of maintenance and 
upkeep of the child will be borne by the woman, and even where the 
partner helps the income levels may severely limit the options available
 to the couple. With no safety net a couple facing the prospects of a 
child has to work out if they can realistically afford this child, not 
only in monetary terms, but also the social and health costs of 
maintaining this child.
Since women bear the brunt of this, and 
women also are the ones who carry this child I think it really should be
 in their interests to be given a choice whether, or not, to carry the 
child to term. A woman's choice should not be curtailed for religious 
and/or social reasons and since these same religious and social 
enforcers do not bear any of the costs of maintaining this child after 
delivery they should not be part of the decision whether, or not, a 
woman should carry a child to term. The choice ultimately is the 
woman's. She is the one who carries the child, she is the one who 
delivers the child and she is the one who will be required to take care 
of many aspects of that child. She thus should also be the one who 
decides whether, or not, the child is to be carried to term.
This,
 however, does not absolve the men of any responsibility towards the 
child. Inasmuch as a man has contributed to the conception he should 
also contribute to the discussion, advice, upkeep and maintenance of 
this child. Whereas the woman should, and must, have the ultimate choice
 whether to carry the child to term or not, the man, too, can state his 
preferences on the issue. He is an interested party, and while he may 
not, and should not be, the ultimate decision maker his opinion does 
count. He has, as our learned friends put it, locus standi.
Leaving
 abortion as illegal only drives the practice underground. Women, and 
men, will opt for an abortion for many reasons and they will procure one
 regardless as to its illegality. The only purpose making it illegal 
serves is to condemn many poor and uninformed women to premature deaths 
from botched or incompetently done abortions, or condemn many children, 
and mothers, to a lifetime of poverty and suffering with not much chance
 of escaping the poverty trap.
At this stage in my life I 
probably would not advise any woman who may have been impregnated by me 
to abort however if I had over my regulation 2.3 children the scenario 
would probably change. It is easy for one who is living in relative 
comfort with most of the basic necessities assured to say women should, 
and must, not abort, however one should have a level of empathy for 
other people. What do you expect a woman in school who knows her parents
 will disown her to do? What do you expect that woman in the slums who 
is already feeding 12 children to do? What do you expect that woman 
whose career and further prospects would be shattered by a pregnancy to 
do?
Religious groups cite the absolute sanctity of life in their 
opposition to abortion. This argument however falls flat when you 
consider the number of goats, cows, bacteria, chicken, viruses or even 
humans that are killed through human action, and inaction. It is 
hypocritical to claim sanctity of life when thousands of children are 
dying every say from preventable deceases, when thousands more are 
starving to death and when thousands of mothers are dying from 
childbirth and childbirth related complications. We seem to be more 
bothered about the rights of the unborn than we are about the rights of 
those living. We are moved more by the plight of an aborted foetus than 
we are by the face of a hungry child.
Perhaps let us first ban 
poverty, let us declare poverty a crime against the state and punish 
those who keep people in poverty with the same terms we punish those who
 procure an abortion. Let us ban social hypocrisy, let us ban hunger, 
let us ban ignorance and those practices that prevent us from enjoying 
our sex without guilt or shame. Let us make it easier and cheaper for us
 to control conception, let us educate our children on sex, let us ban 
our prejudiced views and make it easier for everyone to access 
information, services and satisfaction from our sexual activities. Then 
we can go on to ban abortion. I can assure you, though, you'll be 
banning an obsolete practice.
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